Divorce and Separation Coaching
How Divorce Coaching can help
Divorce can leave you feeling overwhelmed, reactive, and unsure of what to do next.
As a divorce coach with a background in family law, I help you slow the process down, understand what’s happening, and prepare properly for each stage.
Divorce coaching can help you:
- Stay calm and grounded during emotionally charged situations
- Prepare for meetings with your solicitor, mediator, or barrister
- Understand the divorce and financial settlement process
- Complete and organise legal paperwork such as Form E
- Communicate clearly with your ex-partner and professionals
- Avoid costly emotional and financial mistakes
- Create a realistic plan for life after divorce
All sessions are confidential and delivered online, supporting clients worldwide.
Divorce Coaching for Men and Women
I work with both men and women who:
- Feel overwhelmed by the emotional and legal complexity of divorce
- Want to feel prepared rather than reactive
- Need help understanding legal paperwork and procedures
- Want clarity, confidence, and emotional stability
Coaching is available pre-divorce, during proceedings, and post-divorce.
Are you neglecting your own needs and feeling burnt out? My self-care coaching services can help you prioritize self-care and develop a sustainable self-care routine that works for you.
About Sam Shotter Divorce and Separation Coach
My Qualifications
My Qualifications
My Qualifications
I am an accredited Divorce and Separation Coach and former family law practitioner with over 20 years experience working in private practice.
My Approach
My Qualifications
My Qualifications
My approach is legally informed but non-advisory - Practical and structured - Emotionally grounded- Confidential and judgment-free
My Specialties
My Qualifications
My Specialties
My clients benefit from:
- Clear explanations of the legal divorce and financial process
- Practical preparation for solicitors’ meetings and court hearings
- Emotional regulation during the process.
- Support completing financial disclosure and legal forms.
How Divorce Coaching Works
Clear, Structured Support at Every Stage
Divorce coaching is practical, confidential support designed to help you function, decide, and prepare during divorce.
Step 1: Free Consultation
We discuss where you are in the divorce process, your concerns, and whether coaching is the right fit.
Step 2: Ongoing Coaching Support
Through regular sessions, I help you:
- Prepare for legal meetings and court
- Organise paperwork and financial disclosure
- Regulate your emotions
- Make calm, informed decisions
Step 3: Forward Planning
As divorce progresses or concludes, coaching shifts toward rebuilding confidence, stability, and your next chapter.
Divorce Coaching Services
1:1 Divorce Coaching
Personalised divorce coaching for men and women navigating separation or divorce.
Includes: - Weekly or bi-weekly private coaching sessions - Preparation for solicitor, mediator, and court meetings - Guidance on communication and conflict management - Support with legal paperwork (including Form E preparation) - Ongoing support between sessions.
Ideal for clients who want informed, steady guidance throughout the process.
Divorce Decision Coaching
If you’re unsure whether to stay or leave, divorce decision coaching provides calm, structured support to help you make a clear, confident choice.
We work on: - Clarifying priorities and values - Understanding emotional and legal implications - Reducing fear-based or rushed decisions